- You are so lucky!
- Wow that is the life!
- I wish I could do what you do!
- It is like vacation everyday!
- You must be rich! (We’re not, but that’s a topic for a different post!)
Here is the low down: full-time RVing isn’t always glamorous! Social media puts one giant “happy” filter on what life is actually like. It makes it seem Pinterest perfect. Like we kick up our heals and sip champagne all day, while soaking in evening sunsets on the beach.
Sure, that happens sometimes. And, if you follow us on YouTube or Instagram, that’s what you see a lot of. We like lifting people up, so we like showing them happy things.
But does that always happen? No. Not even close.
Here’s what you don’t see:
- When we take pictures of the inside of the RV, we have to push a lot of crap out of the way.
- The bed is almost never made. Update: Now it is, thanks to our Beddie.
- We usually have at least
twofour loads of laundry waiting to be done.
- Josh is constantly dealing with a composting toilet that overflows, or a faulty gasket that gets him soaking wet, or a sewer hose that splits apart and gets poop all over him, or a leak in the galley that grosses the neighbors out.
Don’t think we’re trailer trash. We’re not. We try to keep everything neat and organized, but sometimes life just doesn’t work like that.
Now that you know the backstory, here are six times that full-time RVing isn’t glamorous.
1. We Work Full-Time
2. You Only See The HAPPY Moments
I don’t whip out the vlogging camera when I am sad and crying because I miss my mom and my siblings. I don’t show you that one night we arrived in a campground and basically everything broke. We laughed about it the next day but it was a nightmare in the midst of it all. In any lifestyle is has its ups and downs. You just have to have the attitude to choose to laugh about it instead of bite your husband’s head off when you are trying to tell him where to back up the trailer….
3. You Have To Have A GOOD Attitude
This goes with out saying (almost) . You really need to have an upbeat attitude to RV.
RVs break in weird ways. You are going to have to learn to fix things with a smile on your face.
Some days everything will be against you. It seems like you just can’t get ahead.
This is my favorite quote. It can be applied anywhere, but especially to RVing:
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company… a church… a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you… we are in charge of our Attitudes.”
4. You Are Going To Be ALONE
This is the TRUTH! You better love your spouse a LOT before moving into a RV because you get to see that happy face 24/7! Luckily Josh and I are best friends and work really well as a team (most of the time). You will have times though that you won’t have many meaningful interactions with people. Finding friends on the road is tough. You have to really put yourself out there to make friends and meet up with others. I have found a lot of amazing connections with friends over Instagram, Youtube and Facebook. I feel very connected but sometimes I just want to watch Friends and drink wine with my friends back home. Skype and Facetime is a great way to stay connected. I have many close friends that I haven’t met in person but I feel like I have known them for years because we chat so often. Your vibe attracts your tribe! Love them hard when you find them!
5. Traveling Fast SUCKS
Hitting the open road looks so fun until you are sitting in a motor-home, truck or car for 10 hours. We don’t advise this method of travel by any means but sometimes you aren’t going to have a choice in the matter and you have to get a move on. We did the long and fast traveling 3 times in our first year of rving. After each sprint my body hurt and so did my soul. I go CRAZY in the passenger seat with so much of the world flying by me! My advice take it slow, slow, slow!!!!! RVer burn out is a real thing!
6. Not Everyone Travels To Arizona and Florida
I don’t know if you have heard but Arizona and Florida RV Parks are expensive in the winter! (Boondocking in the Arizona desert is cheap, but you won’t have power or hookups.) All the snow birds fly like crazy down to the warmer temps while I am here in Central Oregon in February just trying to keep my feet warm!
Josh and I try to keep our costs down as much as possible. It we traveled to every sunny and warm place we would be broke. Making this lifestyle super convenient for you will cost you but if you roll with punches and travel slow you can make this way of living work for you!
Why I Wrote This
I hope this gives some perspective on what RVing full time really means. In no way I am trying to discourage people from this lifestyle. We experience far more good moments than bad. The picture above should show you what I mean!
However, I want to give a dose of reality to balance out the illusion of perfection that is so often portrayed in social media. I’ve been guilty of doing that myself. In the future I plan to better capture moments that aren’t perfect–the times when things get rough. But for now this blog post will have to do!